Maybe the church is going to type, or honest and untouched on the ground girl you really imagine. Or, if it is the dreaded "Spoiled rich girl", or money hungry worthless nightmare of your mother told you about when you were 10! They definitely will not come out and say it! So you'll have to dig up all by yourself! You should know what not to do in this situation, as well as her charm, when, and if you decide to go ahead with it!